I'd like to talk about the reason men's suicide rate is much higher than women's. We talked about it briefly. The reason is men don't have time to chat with their friends what happened to him, how they felt, why they did in that way, and so on. Let me dig more in this part.
Obviously, men don't seem to chat a lot. Why? The society makes them quite. If a man is very talkative most of people included some guys probably think he is not so good. This atmosphere get men shut their mouths.
I can see the very example close to me, it's my boyfriend. When he has some problem he never tells me what he's suffering, what makes him depressed, something sounds weak. BUT he acts as if he is never in trouble, and always smiles at me. He always tries to show his good and gentle side to me. I don't understand him. Why does he think so? Men should always be nice, powerful, all right, not concerned, not sighing, not even crying! (Oh, I didn't mean my boyfriend would commit suicide because he never tells me his concern.)
As far as I'm concerned, I can see the men's habits. This makes men's suicide rate much more higher, and they feel pressure more than women do. Why? They are men. The society expects men to be stronger and men know that. What a miserable situation it is! I hope everybody is happy and no more suicide because of the pressure.
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So what should we do for this situation?
I think men should change their thinking way. They should be strong and perfect. However they can also be lean to anyone they sincerely believe Or their lover should understand first and borrow their shoulder. It maybe can make rate of men's commiting suicides lower than now.
Hi whidly, you choose nice topic!
답글삭제Yes.. Most of men don't cry and say their sad thinking a lot.. Sometimes I cannot understand their behavior! Hawever.. I may not like crying boys, too... It does not make sense ;)...
I think the men are much more brave than the women haha..
답글삭제I always tell someting sad or problems to my friends and I also express my emotion and often cry while watching a very sad movie. Men shoud be like me..